A few years ago, I realized why approaching is important.
Don’t roll your eyes…
It’s not because as a man you should “bend the universe to your will,” “seize every chance you get,” and so on.
Rather for one reason only:
Abundance.
I notice a lot of guys go for girls in their immediate vicinity.
Work colleagues…
Perhaps a family friend…
Classmates or if they did the same major in college…
You get the point.
The problem with this is that it LIMITS your options.
It puts you in scarcity.
And also in potentially complicated situations.
With work, for example, you gotta be careful with HR so she doesn’t complain if things go south. You also have to be much more considerate and not come on too strong.
When it’s a family friend, you have to keep in mind the family relations…
As well as your history of being just friends for so many years, maybe you know some of her exes, yada-yada.
And finally, with classmates and the like…
You gotta deal with preconceived notions and tackling her first impression of you.
(Especially if it’s not a good one.)
So my big realization was that when you don’t broaden your horizon…
When you don’t talk to that cute girl in the coffee shop or the bar…
You remain at a disadvantageous position.
Because the circumstances around trying to make it happen with girls in your immediate vicinity put a lot of obstacles in front of you.
Sometimes it almost feels like you’re CONVINCING the girl to go out with you.
And you should never put yourself in such a position.
That’s why I tend to advise guys to go for girls that like them.
Situations where the context around you two is SIMPLE.
So the good thing about approaching is that you meet every new girl you like with a clean slate and she doesn’t have any preconceived notions about you.
And even if the girl isn’t sure about you from the approach alone…
You can always make her say “yes” one way or another.
Be it when texting…
Or just by having a conversation that excites her.
That’s the foundation behind my course Say Hello.
My goal is to broaden your horizon…
For you to be able to meet any girl you want…
And to show you how to create abundance out of thin air.
Also let’s be honest, quite often random women we see on the street can be WAY HOTTER than that co-worker, family friend, or old college acquaintance.
So…
If you want the exact steps to sparking a genuine connection with a new girl…
That’s void of any complications…
And situational context that can hurt your chances…
Check out the course below:
Meet women on your terms WITHOUT having to deal with prejudice
Rock and Roll,
Christian
