A BIG mistake guys make when texting their matches is:
Trying too hard when looking at the girl’s profile and making a comment about some obscure thing.
Like something about her bio (what everyone will comment on anyway)…
Or maybe about her Interests section which if I have to be honest, I absolutely can’t remember what I’ve put there for myself – point being the girl most likely won’t be able to remember, too, so the text won’t hit.
So besides resorting to pre-canned first texts…
You can observe her photos.
Try to find something interesting in them.
If all of her photos are mirror selfies you can jokingly send:
“I think you really like mirror selfies 😂”
Making a compliment about her outfit in one specific photo is also fine.
But you wanna be careful when complimenting a girl to not look supplicating.
It has to be a GENUINE and SPECIFIC compliment.
For most men this is a bit hard so it’s not my #1 recommendation.
The good thing about making comments or observations about her photos is because you instantly make it more personable.
She opens up…
And becomes receptive to a lot.
Like so much she might even break her own rules.
Rules such as no kissing on the first date, no secks on the first date, and so on.
By the way, this doesn’t apply to dating apps only.
The more personable you can be with women in general in real life, the better they’ll respond to you.
So if you want to see how to do this in dating apps…
Via text…
And in-person…
We’ve got this great story by a girl who went out with one of the guys who bought our online dating course.
Just click below to watch her tell you how:
How “risky lines” get you Tinder dates fast
