When I was working with clients live, I noticed a lot of them were in for a rude awakening.
Cause if you can pay 4,000 bucks for live coaching…
You’re probably valuable in the workplace.
So you’re having at least some success in life.
But this doesn’t automatically make you valuable in the dating game.
There isn’t a direct correlation between the two.
Dating is a separate “game” with separate rules.
Money can help, yes, but it doesn’t guarantee anything.
Most guys aren’t celebrities like Drake or professional athletes like LeBron James where all it takes is focusing on your craft and having women like you in the process.
Most guys don’t have the limelight on them.
For example:
I’ve always felt like I’ve been working in the shadows and slowly building myself up.
But the women I went out with didn’t know this.
And they didn’t CARE.
They cared about me showing them a good time, being funny, dominant, leading, and being interesting.
So the “focus on work and girls will come” idea isn’t really applicable to most men.
Cause no one’s actually paying attention.
It’s up to us…
Me AND you…
To grab that attention.
To make the girl notice you.
To give her a good experience.
And this happens by being intriguing.
By provoking a response inside her that makes her think, “this guy’s interesting and not like the rest”
And to do it…
It’s about showing rather than telling the girl you’re ABC or XYZ.
It’s about subtly planting the idea in her brain that you’re powerful in your own domain and her life can only improve by being around you.
That’s the essence of my course Power Signals.
The way I put it is…
A “power signal” is a signal that evokes a reaction in women.
And usually this reaction has to do with her being intrigued and attracted to you.
So it’s all subtle.
She won’t know how fat your wallet is…
Or if you’re the CEO.
All she’ll know is that you’re a man she wants to know more about.
Which is exactly what will get her to initiate.
She’ll reciprocate in conversations.
And she’ll fill in the silences.
If curious, you can get Power Signals below:
How to subtly make her intrigued by you
Rock and Roll,
Christian
