A reader called Francis wrote in recently about his experience with Unbreakable.
And he made a valid point about approaching.
Basically, he made a distinction between guys who mindlessly approach and get rejected a lot…
And those who seem to always be smooth…
And leave the interaction with the girl’s number.
Essentially it’s the ability to see she wants to be approached.
And going with the flow of the place you’re at.
Cause guys who approach without any thought often do so in the wrong context.
That’s exactly WHY…
They get rejected a lot.
Whereas when you understand the context of the approach you wanna do…
Your chances of getting her info and going on a date a few days after increase DRAMATICALLY.
I’ll just reprint Francis’ whole message to me about Unbreakable below.
It’s low-key genius:
“I would be approaching girls in the wrong context, and with the concepts from Unbreakable, the main thing that I got out of it right away was the ability to see who wanted to be approached, and going with the flow of the scene.
So that just kind of clicked in my mind.
To put it in geeky terms, I felt like after these concepts were introduced to me, I saw the Matrix.
Instead of being an approach machine, I’ll make eye contact with a girl, and just do something as simple as that, which is part of that social intuition… The amount of good responses I’ve gotten have at least tripled, because I know she wants to be approached so I just go for it instead of hesitating.
I think that something’s great about what you guys are doing is that some guys just want to be a normal cool guy who gets the hottest girls, and I think that’s what Unbreakable teaches.”
If you want to discover what Francis is talking about:
See how to use “contextual approaching” to get the hottest girls
Rock and Roll,
Christian
