Social media and phones fvcked up our brains.
Every notification, every text, every short video gives us nothing but dopamine hits that make us go, “MORE! MORE! MORE!”
One moment she’s texting you…
The next moment she’s watching TikTok…
For hours.
Then her friends call to hang out tonight and she forgets about your text.
Your competition…
Is NOT other men.
Your competition is the whole Internet.
That compulsion to check her phone every 3 minutes to seek a new dopamine hit is what truly is between you and getting her out on a date.
You can’t fight it.
But you can join it…
i.e. become the BEST dopamine hit she can get.
And you’ll be priority #1 out of all her notifications.
Getting to agree to the date will be easy.
Even if she stops replying, she’ll be the one starting the new convo after.
She’ll text you FIRST…
When it’s just been just mere hours.
And the number one way to become the best dopamine hit in her phone is to send her what I call a Positively Shocking text.
She’ll forget the TikToks.
The reels…
The shorts…
The girls group chat.
You’ll be the first thing she pays attention to while everything else takes second place.
I break down what a Positively Shocking text is here:
How to be the #1 notification in her phone (social media will be an afterthought)
Rock and Roll,
Christian
