What’s Up Brotha,
Let me show you the cold approach opener that has started more real relationships than almost anything else I’ve ever taught.
This one comes from:
Power Signals → Module 2.1: Dramatic Direct Opener
It’s simple.
It works almost anywhere.
And when done correctly, it creates that tingly sensation women secretly crave.
Here’s how you do it.
Walk up to her confidently.
If it’s daytime, start with:
“Excuse me…”
If it’s nighttime, start with:
“Hey…”
Then say:
“I saw you [doing X activity]…”
Maybe:
“I saw you standing there.”
“I saw you walking by.”
“I saw you sitting here.”
Then pause.
“I just had to come tell you…”
Pause again.
“I think…”
Pause again.
“You are…”
Ravishing.
The pauses are the key.
They build suspense.
They build tension.
They create that dramatic moment where she feels something.
And when you stress the adjective — ravishing — it lands.
I’ve personally used this opener hundreds of times.
And many of my clients have met long-term girlfriends and even wives starting conversations exactly this way.
Because it’s bold.
It’s honest.
And it cuts through the usual boring small talk immediately.
Now the real question is…
What do you say after she responds?
That’s exactly what we break down in the second half of the training video inside the course.
If you want to see how to continue the conversation smoothly from there, you can check it out inside the Brotherhood:
https://www.skool.com/the-social-man-
Never Settle,
Coach Dylan James
P.S. Sunday’s webinar was an absolute blast.
It was awesome meeting so many of you living and breathing the social man ethos & showing you around the new Social Man Brotherhood.
If you missed it, no worries — the doors are still open and new founding members are joining every day.
Come join us and let’s level up together.
→ Check out the Brotherhood here
Never Settle,
Coach Dylan James
