You are about to doubt me.
You are about to think “Marni has no freaking clue what she is talking about…”
But please continue reading after I make this statement BECAUSE I guarantee it will all make sense once I fully explain… and you will thank me for saying what I’m about to say…
I’m about to tell you why acting friendly will get you lots of women.
Now hear me out.
Think about how you act when you are around your friends…
You are comfortable..
You are at ease…
You speak your mind without fear of losing their friendship.
Basically you act like you. The awesome YOU that you wish women you liked, got a chance to see.
I have a theory.
The theory is that most likely you find yourself in the “friend zone” a lot. But it’s not because you are acting like a FRIEND!!!
If you were, you would create more attraction.
What you are probably doing, but may not be aware of it, is acting like a fake version of yourself that is trying to prove to this girl how awesome you are by being complacent, NICE, giving, overly respectful….
You see where I am going right?
Basically you are not being YOU. The you that you are with your friends.
You are a fake version of YOU.
And this isn’t your fault at all.
You have been told by everyone that is how you are meant to act with women.
So , it’s totally normal to be like this.
We all get like this from time to time when we feel nervous about losing something we really like.
The thing is, that this tactic is always going to work against you.
Because by holding back on showing a woman the real YOU…
You stop her from feeling you. And if you’ve been reading my newsletters for awhile, you know how much I stress the importance of making a woman FEEL something about you.
When you don’t act like YOU with a woman, you miss out on her thinking “wow he’s so awesome. He’d be a great boyfriend, lover, husband etc..”
Instead she thinks…
Nothing.
She feels no excitement… No challenge… No nothing…
Which is why attraction is not created and this sentence “I just don’t see you that way.” gets said.
Let’s change this reaction from women starting today.
Let’s change things so that they see you as their “friend”. The friend that they have a crush on but aren’t sure if you like them back.
The friend they pine over and walk on egg shells around.
The friend that makes them feel all nervous and excited and butterflyish.
Let’s be that friend by acting the way you do around your friends.
You can thank me later!
And if you’re not sure exactly how to act like you or get this “friend” thing straight so that she wants to DO you vs. wanting to do anything to find you a girl you can date other than her….
Then let me help you get out and stay out of the “let’s just be friends” zone and into the “I don’t know what it is about this guy but I want to be around him as much as I can because I like him” zone.
