This is a tactic I’ve personally had great success with.
It’s a quick way to create playful chemistry early in a conversation.
And it’s ridiculously easy to do.
Here’s how it works.
At some point during the conversation, notice something about her hands.
Maybe you say:
“Wow, you have such small hands.”
Or…
“That’s a cool ring — let me see that.”
Or…
“I like your nail polish, let me check that out.”
As you say it, hold your hand out slightly.
This naturally invites her to place her hand in yours.
Now you’ve created a moment where you’re touching hands early in the interaction.
And hands are deceptively sexual.
Think about it — we use them for a lot of very intimate things.
When a woman places her hand in yours, it subtly communicates back to her subconscious mind:
She must feel safe and comfortable around you.
Once her hand is in yours, you can say:
“Let’s see how big your hands are.”
Then place your hand up and compare them.
Now you have a few playful options depending on how she responds.
If you feel a little spark, you can gently push your fingertips toward hers and see if she leans into it.
If she responds well, you can briefly clasp your hands around hers and give a light squeeze before letting go.
Or poke fun at how tiny her hands are.
Then pull her back in with something like:
“You know what’s funny… I actually prefer women who are shorter.”
“The proportions are better.”
Playful.
Light.
Flirty.
Use this one next time you’re talking to a hottie.
Inside Practical Social Superpowers, we break down 27 other techniques like this that help you create attraction, connection, and chemistry in real-world interactions.
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