Bar cold DMing a girl you don’t know on Instagram (which purely odd-wise is normal to result in a no-reply)…
Most guys don’t get the girls they know texting them back because of one reason:
Their texts don’t warrant a response.
For example…
If you’re only sending “statement-like” texts that are in joke form…
And the only thing she can do is text back “haha” or put a “haha” reaction on your message…
Then it’s really hard to NOT get ghosted, dude.
Remember:
You gotta make it easy for the girl to reply.
If you’re not sending texts that actually warrant a response in some way, shape, or form…
You can’t be sitting over there sad that you’re getting ghosted.
That’s like getting upset that you’re sending your friends Reels or TikToks and they don’t really say anything in reply but just like your message or something.
Usually when you want a reply from your friends…
Your text has some sort of a purpose.
So it’s the same with texting girls.
And the purpose of your messages should be getting you a step CLOSER to hanging out with her.
Only sending jokes…
Memes…
Or just things that don’t really warrant her input…
Will leave you in the Ghost Zone.
So, as a homework for the weekend:
Think what you can send that actually warrants a reply.
Rock and Roll,
Christian
