Any of the below sound familiar?
“Girls only like a–holes”
“Nice guys finish last”
The reason is very simple:
If a girl is just LUKEWARM towards you, it’s the worst position you can be in.
Because she doesn’t feel strong emotions for you.
She’s somewhat neutral.
Whereas if she likes you a lot, even loves you…
Or HATES you…
You can have a much easier time using it to your advantage.
Here’s why:
Lust and outrage are similar.
They’re similar in the regard that they spike her emotions and take her on a rollercoaster ride.
Women love drama, it’s no secret.
When everything is lukewarm, calm, normal…
They’re bored.
Instead, they like it when there’s some tension.
So that’s why if you’re mean to girls they like you.
Of course, you don’t wanna be a complete a–hole.
No one likes being treated like crap.
But if you can be PLAYFULLY MEAN to her…
She’ll love you for it.
You’re giving her that emotional spike she craves in a positive light.
And if you can do this on your dates…
As well as in your texts…
She won’t ever think about other men.
Especially online on dating apps and social media, being able to QUICKLY give her that positive emotional spike makes you stand out.
That’s the secret to getting dates from online game.
Compare texting her “hi how are you” with “you didn’t come say good night yesterday.”
I think the difference is obvious.
(Btw you can totally use the second text when replying to a girl’s story from the club or the restaurant.)
And on that note…
I recently teamed up with a YouTuber who’s got 1M+ subscribers.
A mutual friend introduced saying I *had* to see his playfully mean texts he’s compiled in a virtual book of sorts.
He calls it the Black Book of Messages.
And I have to agree it’s the BEST “playfully mean” texting guide I’ve ever seen.
Works on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Facebook Dating, all the social medias…
As well as just texting girls you already know.
Check it out below:
The “Playfully Mean” Black Book of Messages
Rock and Roll,
Christian
