I came across an interesting Reddit thread the other day.
It was posted by some guy who spent 9 years on Tinder and finally found his dream girl.
So he was shutting down his account and wanted a breakdown of his stats.
He got his information from Tinder – you can do the same – and was taking a look at how many times he swiped, how many matches he got, how many dates he went on…
And how many of those resulted in relationships.
In a nutshell:
He right-swiped almost 300 THOUSAND times.
Matched with less than 8000 girls.
(That’s “eight”, not eighty. Think about that for a second.)
Had some back and forth with around 2200.
Got 400 dates.
125 resulted in casual secks…
And only two resulted in relationships.
Now we don’t know how selective that guy is, how good his text game is, how he defines “casual” and a “relationship”…
But still a lot of the comments in the Reddit thread were clowning him:
“Wow that’s a 0.8% match rate.”
“Think about all the STIs from these casual relationships.”
“9 years on the apps must mean something’s wrong with you.”
Here’s the thing:
His numbers are nothing to sneeze at.
If anything, he was getting something like 700 matches a year.
And 120-something casual relationships in 9 years isn’t bad at all, too.
That’s sleeping with at least one NEW girl a month on average.
(Most men today get just a few new girls a year.)
But every guy can do this.
It’s just about consistently putting yourself out there.
That dude also probably watched a lot of videos on the dating app topic and tried to improve his profile and text game through the years.
One thing irks me though:
He “only” went on 400 dates out of ~2200 chats and ~8000 matches.
That’s where I agree with fellow Reddit users that it’s an abysmal rate of about 25% from the girl he messaged with.
Because if you match with a girl and she replies…
It means she likes you.
There’s INTENT.
You shouldn’t have a super hard time going out with her.
This doesn’t mean you can get out every girl today or tomorrow…
But it means most of the girls you match with will be down to hang out soon (some will need more texting to build comfort, others will just be doing it for attention, others will delete the app in the process and never get back to you).
If your text game isn’t there yet though…
If you can’t capitalize on a girl that figuratively said, “yes I like him”
Or if you simply think you’re not getting enough matches…
Then you gotta get my course Online Domination that I co-created with one of my best friends and we tested all our concepts on one of our other friends:
Stevie.
A short, skinny Asian, that looks like a teenager although he’s WAY older.
And as a bonus for you…
We got the reaction of one of his matches.
You’ll see it all.
The text game techniques…
The profile “photos that get matches” module…
The intrigue-creating bio section…
And if I were to adjust the math, Stevie was definitely getting more than 700 matches a year (unlike the guy on Reddit).
Even more importantly…
He was definitely going out with more than 25% of the matches he texted with.
Including during the 2020 lockdowns, too!
Just click the link below to see the girl’s reaction and hear about Online Domination from the man himself, Stevie:
VIDEO: How this short, skinny guy dominates dating apps (girl reacts)
Rock and Roll,
Christian
