Hey man,
It’s time for edition numero 40 of Ask Christian Anything.
As a reminder…
If you’ve got a question, just reply to this email and ask away!
Make sure to give me some context so I can help you as much as I can.
As usual, we have some interesting stuff to cover.
So make yourself a cup of coffee or tea and take your time for today’s agenda:
Let’s get cracking with #1:
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A lot of the questions you answer about the initial approach there put emphasis on the importance of body language which makes total sense.
Here is my challenge:
I am several years into a recovery from a serious injury during which I have worked from being in a wheelchair full time to mostly using a walker. There is no consensus on if I will move past this level. How screwed am I?
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First up:
The fact you’re in the position you are and you’re still checking out my stuff and asking questions is an honor.
I don’t take it for granted at all.
Really ❤️
Shows you have a fighter’s spirit.
And you might not like my answer 100% but I’ll give you the short version and the long version.
Here we go:
Either way you’re not screwed.
I’m sure you’ve seen guys on Instagram who are in a similar or worse position than you but date gorgeous girls.
What I’d say is to be super upfront about it.
Don’t hide it.
Be unapologetic and if you see girls are a bit unsure, just tell them something along the lines that they shouldn’t worry. How you used to be in a wheelchair full-time and it’s only getting better.
The other answer that isn’t a quick fix is:
Nullify this “weakness” (and I say it with utmost respect and empathy).
Meaning work on every other area so that this gets completely outshined and looks like a mere afterthought.
Maximizes your finances.
Maximize your grooming.
Maximize your style.
Maximize the shape you’re in (as much as possible).
Maximize your communication skills.
Maximize absolutely every facet of life possible.
This is good advice for EVERYONE, by the way.
And especially in your case it’ll multiply your results infinitely.
More than you’ve ever thought.
I’m rooting for ya.
Onto question #2:
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That’s great info to have but I’m 56 and need help with my game for women at 40-50… can you help? I really only want to meet a few women and get married.
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Hey man,
No matter the age women respond to the same thing.
Attraction works in a universal way.
If you want to get married you wanna use the same tips I always give in my emails and in my courses and apply them.
Once you get an abundance of women…
A rotation…
You can pick the best option and marry her if you wish.
That’s it.
Now time for the last one #3:
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I’m too nice and boring. Friend zoned.
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Stop being nice and boring?
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In other words:
Stop beating around the bush.
Stop making small talk forever.
Stop hiding your intentions.
Start going for what you want.
Start asking women out.
Start being true to your desires.
I’ve covered escaping the friendzone many times, you got this.
Alright, that’s it for AMA #40.
Until next time.
Rock and Roll,
Christian
