Most guys walk into interactions with an outcome in mind:
Things like:
“I want to make her like me”
“I want to get her number”
“I want to have get her into bed”
But high-status men don’t think like that.
High status men ask themselves a different question:
“Where does this girl fit in my life?”
Is she:
*Just for tonight
*A casual thing
*Or someone with real long-term potential
And the way you figure that out is through screening and qualifying.
Here’s how to apply it right away.
Within the first 10–15 minutes, here’s the 3 traits I am looking to qualify a woman on:
How open is she?
Is she open to new people, new experiences, new ideas etc.
How adventurous is she?
Does she like to do things that are active and outside her comfort zone or stick with what she knows?
Does she challenge herself?
Is she growing… or just coasting?
You don’t need to interrogate her.
You just weave it into conversation.
Then pay attention.
Because the moment you start qualifying her on these traits…
The dynamic shifts.
You stop chasing.
You start asserting your standards.
And that energy is incredibly attractive.
Inside Hot Seat Coaching, we break this down in detail —
You’ll get word-for-word example to qualify her on these traits so it feels natural, playful, and smooth.
If you want to see exactly how to do it, you can check it out here 👇🏼
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Never Settle,
Coach Dylan James
