Contrary to what you might be thinking, dating after 30, 40, and 50 gets better every year.
Now the thing with getting older is…
You still like women between 22 and 35, for example.
You don’t like women close to your age if you’re 45, 55, or 65.
But the problem is you’re no longer in the same environments that used to expose you to attractive young women.
You’re not in college…
Grad school…
Or that summer internship.
Fortunately the simple solution is:
Go out with your single friends…
With younger guys you know…
As well as with female friends if you have any.
Also go where your target demographic is:
Group gym classes, sports leagues, networking events, etc.
Also if you’re experienced career-wise you can be a teacher to younger people and do some sort of skill training.
Point is:
Just go out.
It can be as simple as working from the coffee shop and socializing with the people there instead of working from home.
And while it might be a bit weird to hit up a college campus…
What’s stopping you from going to that coffee place a block or two away from it?
Now here’s the hot button topic:
Your age will come up.
But that’s a non-issue.
Some younger women ACTIVELY seek out ONLY older men to date because they think dating someone around their age is a turn-off. Reason being the life experience of someone in his 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond is much higher than a guy in his 20s.
Also:
Dating someone experienced is much more FUN for a girl.
And what are the 6 most important words in dating?
“Girls just want to have fun.”
Because the foundation of every romantic relationship is EMOTION.
So the age thing is definitely an advantage.
That said, you wanna do two things:
1) Don’t bring up your age yourself
Why shoot yourself in the foot?
There’s literally no point.
2) Don’t approach her directly
When you approach someone around your age you can afford to be more open and direct. But when there’s an obvious age gap, you don’t know the girl yet so you’re risking a bad response from her.
So what you should do is SHOWCASE your “value” as a mature gentleman.
This way she starts liking you before she even has the chance to worry if you’re too old for her.
And I just remembered something from my NYC days.
I dated this model who was 6’1” without high heels.
(I’m not close to that height.)
So on our first date we met at this place quite late and come closing time she wanted to do the following thing before we left that *shocked* me:
She wanted to take her shoes off…
TO BE CLOSER TO MY HEIGHT.
That’s how much she liked me.
She didn’t want her height to intimidate me once we got up.
(Of course I didn’t let her do that and she spent the night over…)
And when it comes to making the girl so intrigued and attracted to you early on…
Section 14 in my course Obsession Triggers has natural conversation techniques that plant “seeds” of interests in her mind early on that make her invest in the dynamic between you two.
If you read my email yesterday, you’ll know we’re having a special promo around Obsession Triggers right now.
You see, yesterday was Pay It Forward Day…
So the random act of kindness that I’m passing on to you is 41% OFF the course.
Given the fact that it’s one of my most expensive ones…
Usually going for $167 a pop…
I wouldn’t miss that deal if I were you.
Go here to claim it:
Dating made simple at any age (get Obsession Triggers for 41% OFF)
We’re keeping the price that low for one more day.
I’ll email you about it tomorrow, too.
I don’t want you to miss it.
Rock and Roll,
Christian
