There’s one SUPER EARLY sign a relationship is heading downhill.
It’s before she starts being naggy…
And it’s way before the actual break-up.
Most relationships start to end the moment the man loses his masculine edge.
When he lets himself go…
When he stops hanging out with his friends just to be with her…
When he stops striving for progress…
And his whole life and personality are centered around catering to his woman and not speaking up when she’s disturbing HIS inner peace.
Taking good care of your woman is essential, my man, I agree.
But you can’t be nice forever…
Or tolerant…
In times when she’s overreacting, being too annoying, and disturbing your inner peace.
There needs to be a firm boundary in place.
Because the moment a woman sees she can walk all over you…
Is when the relationship starts to end.
Without sounding too macho, your girl should always know she CAN’T mess with you.
She disturbs your inner peace?
Let her know.
She’s being annoying?
Ignore her.
If you respond to every single negative behavior of hers like a nice guy, she’ll know she can always have you.
There will be no fear of loss.
And I’m aware this might come across as a bit manipulative…
But that’s human nature and women do it, too.
Think about it:
When a man caters to his woman’s negative behavior, why does he do it?
Because he doesn’t want her to leave him.
The man feels a certain amount of fear. And if the woman feels that, too, and she doesn’t overstep his boundaries…
This makes space for the relationship to FLOURISH.
And it also makes space for the relationship to rebuild.
The caveat is:
If things have already started going south…
And it’s obvious…
You can’t be going all in guns blazing stating your boundaries.
Suddenly acting macho.
There needs to be some subtlety to “recondition” her.
And the prelude for my course Lust goes exactly over this in great detail.
I made Lust to help guys repair relationships.
Not just long-term ones.
But also with girls that went cold and you feel like you are losing her.
If you wanna get her back, in any shape or form…
This video outlining Lust is for you:
How to subtly “repair” the relationship and make her want you again
Rock and Roll,
Christian
