If you’re on a date and you feel like you wanna kiss the girl…
If you feel like that’s the “moment”…
Yet you’re too afraid to go for it…
The only thing you’re guaranteed to get is landing in the friendzone.
When you’re afraid to act…
You’re just not a secksual threat.
There’s zero male-female polarity.
And polarity is a GREAT way to AVOID the friendzone, my man.
When you’re not afraid to state or act upon your intentions…
A whole new romantic world opens up for ya.
Let’s see an example:
If you’re on a date and you wanna kiss the girl but are a bit stuck on how to do it…
You can flat out say, “I wanna kiss you right now”
Even if she doesn’t feel the same way…
It’s a guarantee she’ll have a hard time putting you in the friendzone.
Because you’ve now established POLARITY.
She knows you mean business.
And let’s say she doesn’t want you to kiss her…
Maybe she says you two should just be friends.
In that case, simply tell her: “Nah I don’t want just friends, but if we’re not on the same page all good”
From there you focus on the next girl.
Don’t try to change a girl’s mind.
Don’t try to convince.
If you want, you can hit her up in a few months’ time.
You’ll be surprised to see how a girl’s mind can change.
And in any case if it comes down to her trying to friendzone you…
Then it usually means you were a bit too late in establishing polarity.
You were lukewarm for a while which made her think you don’t like her romantically but then all of a sudden you cranked it up and that can be like a shock for the girl.
So, either way…
It’s always better to “insure” yourself.
Because using polarity is a fantastic way to NEVER be labeled as a nice guy and put in the friendzone.
You can dive deeper into this here:
How polarity keeps you out of the friendzone
Rock and Roll,
Christian
