Learning how to read body language and signals is one of the surest ways to become better with women.
And while some people seem to have a natural talent for this…
For others, it can be like trying to understand a foreign language.
That’s why I want to talk about the most common signal of all — eye contact — and how to interpret its meaning.
Because the truth is not all eye contact is the same.
When a woman looks at you, it could be for a few different reasons…
But it’s usually one of these two:
Either she’s interested in you… or she’s wary of you.
So she could be looking at you as a way of inviting you to come over and talk to her…
Or she could be keeping an eye on you because she feels threatened and uncomfortable.
And since these are obviously completely different, it’s important to know which is which.
That’s why you need to look at her other signals to properly determine what her eye contact means.
If she’s interested in you, she’ll usually give some signals that are soft and feminine while looking at you.
That could be things like playing with her hair… a little smile… blushing… lowering her gaze after looking at you etc.
And when you lock eyes with her, you should notice a hint of warmth and softness.
These are all signals we subconsciously give guys when we find them attractive.
On the other hand, if she’s looking at you out of wariness, you’ll notice completely different signals.
She may have a cold and emotionless look in her eyes, void of any warmth or expression.
She won’t be smiling or playing with her hair, or trying to look feminine and inviting.
You should notice that her signals are more cold, hard and trying to warn you away.
Again, I realize that this is something many guys already know…
But there’s quite a lot also who get this mixed up and think a woman is interested when really she’s not.
So the more important question then becomes…
How can you make sure you’re the guy who women are always looking at because they’re interested in you…
And never because they might be wary or suspicious of you?
Actually, it’s not difficult at all… once you know a few simple secrets that most women will never tell you.
But as your loyal Wing Girl I’m not holding any of these secrets back from you.
The BEST female friend you’ll ever need,
Marni
