I get lots of guys asking, “but what should I talk to her about in text?”
Let me remind you about a golden rule:
The #1 thing people love talking about is themselves.
So you ask her questions.
Look at it as small talk to build some commonalities, use her answers to make little jokes, and so on.
Some girls might try being smart:
“Are you a detective, why do you ask so many questions?”
Don’t worry.
Just tell her, “it’s normal for people who don’t know each other to ask questions”
Don’t be afraid of being direct.
Girls like throwing these little tests.
The other thing you can do besides asking questions is sending voice notes.
A voice note can have a question, a joke, or anything else you’d usually write but only this time you say it in a voice note.
It’s good for a woman to hear your voice because it’s attractive to them.
Shows confidence.
Another thing is sending photos.
I’m not sure about iMessage, but Instagram has the feature where you can send photos that DISAPPEAR after being opened once.
This is useful to make her more intrigued.
Especially if she doesn’t pay attention when opening it the first time she’ll ask for the photo a second time.
Which is a sneaky way to make her invest more in the interaction.
Last but not least:
You can try to get girls on calls.
Both voice calls and FaceTime work.
You wanna have a normal conversation about her day or her plans, then use this information to ask her out.
They agree easier to a date this way.
But this is entirely your preference, if you do everything else right, you can still ask her out in text and she’ll agree.
I’m just giving you tips and you decide which ones you like.
The reason why I started doing calls is because some girls seem cool on text but can be super annoying on the phone and their energy is bad.
Whereas with other girls it can be the OPPOSITE (not all women are good at texting).
Also, with matches from dating apps a video call is good because you can check if she’s a catfish.
The point of all of the above is this:
Get her HOOKED on talking and texting you.
All of these different strategies and angles make you real in her eyes.
You automatically stand out from everyone else who’s just another name in her DMs or dating apps.
I even developed a specific 5-text sequence that quickly achieves this effect.
I break it down in the video at the link below.
Watch it.
Take notes if you have to.
It’s the best thing I’ve discovered when it comes to texting women:
5-text sequence makes her attracted to you
Rock and Roll,
Christian
