Hey man,
Some tough love today:
If you’re a nice guy in dating, your chances are practically ZERO.
And it’s not because you’re nice.
No, no, no.
Nice guys don’t finish last because of that.
Nice guys finish last because they’re inauthentic.
If you find yourself packing and freezing up in front of a hot girl, thinking, “omg she’s so hot I better not to mess it up”?
You’ve already set yourself up for failure.
When guys get in this state of mind this is what follows:
They start giving the girl SPECIAL treatment.
They’re faking their niceness to impress her and win her over.
They don’t try to say anything remotely polarizing…
And they walk on eggshells overthinking everything trying not to upset her.
Do you see the problem?
You are not being yourself.
You are AFRAID of being yourself, actually.
Acting this way kills attraction.
Compare this to how you act around your friends…
Are you afraid they’ll stop being your friends if you say the wrong thing?
Do you act in a certain way not to upset them?
I hope not.
Then why do you act differently around an attractive girl?
I’ll tell you why:
It’s because you’re afraid of losing her.
And you’re afraid because you know you don’t have other options.
So you’re in SCARCITY.
You don’t have a reliable system for creating attraction with women you find attractive.
That’s why every new woman you meet means that much more to you.
You’re afraid of losing her.
And you’ll NEVER be comfortable being yourself around the women you find attractive if you don’t meet attractive women often enough.
Do you understand?
You need to actually go out into the world.
You’ll only get comfortable once you’ve put the reps in.
Of course, the problem is:
How do you know what reps to put in?
Rejection can be gut-wrenching.
That’s why I came up with the Desire System.
I’ll show you the most effective reps you can do to attract women predictably and consistently.
ZERO guesswork.
Just follow the 7 steps you’ll see at the link below:
How to ACTUALLY date hot women and REMOVE the Nice Guy persona that’s afraid of losing them
Rock and Roll,
Christian
