This was the last program Christian ever filmed—basically a distillation of everything he learned over the years.
There’s one principle in there that Christian is the most famous for coining:
Live in the moment. Flirt with the future.
Here’s what that means.
The more you try to pin her down…
“Let’s hang next week.”
“What are you doing Friday?”
“When are you free?”
The more pressure you create. And pressure kills attraction.
But when you DON’T try to lock her down, focusing instead on having as much fun as possible with her in every moment.
She starts thinking:
“I want more of this.”
That’s when SHE starts trying to lock YOU down for plans.
Now here’s where the tactic comes in.
When you’re with her, or talking to her, you want to constantly be future projecting.
What’s future projecting, you ask?
Simply put, it’s throwing out ideas for things you and her could do together.
The key?
You don’t hold onto it.
You just plant the seed… and move on.
For example:
“Wait—you’ve never had artichoke pizza?”
“No way… alright, next time we hang out I’m taking you. If you don’t try it in the next week or two I don’t think we can be friends anymore.”
You both laugh.
There’s a moment of excitement.
And then…
You drop it.
No scheduling.
No locking it in.
No asking if she’s free that weekend.
You just keep the interaction flowing.
Do this enough, and something interesting happens.
By the second or third date you go on with her…
You’ve already got a dozen things you’ve talked about doing together.
It feels natural.
It feels organic.
And most importantly…
It feels like something that’s already unfolding.
You can do this with:
Food, travel, movies, experiences, activities, random ideas that come up in conversation
Anything.
Inside Ignition, we break this down in detail along with a lots of other examples of what future projecting can sound like.
a ton of other principles that make your interactions feel effortless and magnetic.
If you want to dive deeper into it, you can check it out here:
→ Watch the full Ignition course here
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Just think about it…
If you apply just this ONE technique from this ONE course
Instead of getting flaked on and ghosted when you’re making plans, you’ll have HER start trying to lock YOU down for plans.
Wouldn’t THAT be cool?!
I want us to all level up together, not in isolation.
That’s truly why I built the TSM Brotherhood.
I made it a no brainer at $29/month because I KNOW that I can help get you results.
But you gotta take that leap of faith.
Let’s make 2026 the year you finally meet your perfect match.
Stop trying to lone wolf your way to success, and come join me!
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Never Settle,
Coach Dylan James
