Today, I wanna share something that I’ve taught to over a 110,000 guys just like you… and it’s going to make women stare at you and uncontrollably chase you.
I hope you’re ready for that 😉
It’s a tool I use on a daily basis that I call:
Announcing The Elephant
Announcing the elephant is when you literally say out loud what you are attempting to conceal or cover up when talking to a woman.
Whether it’s that you’re nervous, that you’re mesmerized by her beautiful hair, or that you’re really kid-like excited over spending time with her!
So for example, when I go on stage to speak in front of a large audience, I say something like:
“I’m so nervous. There are so many of you!”
This allows me to no longer focus on trying to cover up/conceal that I’m nervous =)
Instead, I call out my ELEPHANT (my jitters, anxiety, and overall nervousness)!!!
This helps me relax/focus on the audience more because I’m not trying so hard to pretend I’m NOT a bag of jitters…I just told everyone that I am!
And sure enough this helps my audience connect more to me as well because they can understand how that feels and relate to it as well.
I advised a student of mine, Ron, to use it when he is approaching women or even on dates with women and he told me it’s something him and the girl always have a connected laugh over…
So here’s what I want you to do:
If you approach a woman and forget what you want to say, look at her and confidently say with a smile:
“See what you did? You made me all nervous and I forgot what I wanted to say!”
Gives you a few seconds to relax, breath and compose yourself.
Stop wasting your energy trying to conceal that you are nervous….
Just announce it!
It’s honest, it’s genuine, it’s in the moment and women LOVE IT when guys can do this.
It’s the kind of stuff that gets us dreamy-eyed and bragging to our girlfriends about you!
OR:
If you are on a date with a woman you can confidently look her in the eye and say “You know what? I’m a little nervous right now.”
You “Announce The Elephant” and then move on!
Just make sure you announce it confidently.
Announcing The Elephant puts you at ease instantly.
It also puts the woman at ease too because she most likely feels it too and can now feel *that much more* connected to you when she hears that you both have an “elephant.”
So I want you to start Announcing The Elephant!!!!!
Trust me, it will make connecting and being present a lot easier.
Now, this is a pretty powerful tool and once you start using it with women, you will instantly see women reacting to you differently.
But this is only the first step in having superhuman-like abilities to read women and instantly know their secrets and desires…
And how to use that to attract and seduce any and EVERY woman you could possibly ever want.
The BEST Female Friend You’ll Ever Have,
Marni
